When you think about letting a man pursue you, consider letting him take the lead when it makes sense for him to do so.
To start, pursue doesn’t mean sit idly by and wait for the man to do all of the work.
It also doesn’t mean waste time waiting for him to decide that you’re committing to.
How many times have you met a great guy, had a decent interaction, or even a fun date with him and then waited and waited for him to make the next move? If you think he likes you, and you know that you like him, how do you get into a relationship? I want to make it clear about what pursue does and doesn’t mean.
Maybe the man you’re dating right now is spending a lot of time with you, and showing his interest but he won’t actually pull the trigger on commitment.
It is perfectly acceptable for a woman to show unequivocal interest in a man.